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Spiritual Corner
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Spiritual Mastery over Negative People ~ ~
By Neva J Howell
Question on spiritual healing:
 How do I deal with negative people in my life and keep them from bringing me
down too?
Healing facilitation response:
Regarding people operating from and feeding off negative energy, avoiding
them or blocking their energies all the time are only temporary although
sometimes absolutely necessary solutions. It's perfect correct to retreat
when feeling overwhelmed by the negative energy of another person and it's a
mistake to think that really fixes the issue in any spiritually masterful
way.
What can be learned is how to allow those energies to meet the Divine
Godforce energy flowing thru you and when that happens, there will be no
further need to block or avoid.
It is experiential, this shift in consciousness. The way you discover it is
by taking action and observing the results.
To begin, start reminding yourself that Universal Lifeforce Energy is
limitless. Therefore, if you are feeling drained it has to be due to
offering, usually unconsciously, your own life energy to the negative people
in your life who feed on it. Refuse to place yourself in the victim
vibration. Remind yourself that you have access to a limitless supply of
Godforce energy and offer only that.
As you begin to notice the moment you allow your energy to meet the energy
of a negative person and form a partnership, usually an emotional
partnership based on guilt, shame, fear or ego needs, a shift in
consciousness that will allow you to become aware of yourself as a clear,
open vessel thru which unconditional love flows outward. Nothing can drain
that; nothing negative can long endure in the presence of that.
 If a negative energy effects us, it is because of a resonant negativity
within ourselves that needs to be cleared, we have decided that we are alone
in facing it or we have something our ego needs out of the continued
dysfunctional interaction.
When I say this to my partners in healing, sometimes I encounter angry
responses. For example, if someone is in an abusive situation, it's hard for
them to believe they resonate with that. And it's hard for me to see how
they could avoid resonation.
Abuse installs a pattern of belief, at a cellular level. This belief system
is literally in the cells which is what makes it so hard to recognize it and
shift it sometimes and why that same shift can happen so rapidly once we do
shine the light of awareness into ourselves.
Our body has a physiological response to being violated and that is
cellular. The body response becomes part of the emotional and mental
response and it often takes years of self-healing to change those patterns.
Although abuse is a severe form of manipulation that can affect our energy
field, at a more subtle level any negative energy seeking to create negative
response is abusive and can set up a belief system and partnership that
continues uninterrupted until awareness is brought into the situation.
The truth is that something within us draws our experience, always.
We may not be abusers or actively want abuse but if we are unconscious of
the way belief systems were set in us early on by abuse, we function at
levels of fear, protection, and confusion.
The vibration, or sound waves of energy, that emanate from us are from that
bandwidth so it tends to affirm what we walk each day in fear of
encountering. We draw what we fear.
Additionally, if we allow ourselves to slip into any kind of vibration that
is within the same bandwidth with abuse (this can include judgment,
bitterness, unresolved anger, fear, etc.), we become far more attractive to
potential abusers, vibrationally speaking. A wild animal can sense fear. The
abuser is a wild animal, truly.
If we forget what flows thru us, we begin allowing our personal energy to be
drained by negative people and events. If we wander into fear and out of
love, we drain our own personal energy trying to protect or guard ourselves
and are also cut off from source, a more stressful situation than the
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