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Spiritual Corner
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Smell the Roses ~ ~
by Lisa Tunney
In the last 100 years or so, since the advent of the
automobile, life has
progressively moved more quickly. People with their cars race by, demanding
everyone around them to move faster. Add to that planes and trains,
computers and cell phones. Almost gone are the days of old-fashioned
letters. Email has practically removed them from our vocabulary. We even
become concerned when we don't receive a response to our email quickly
enough for our liking. We move through life as if we can't get to where we
are going fast enough. Where are we going?
Conversation, anyone? Try to strike a conversation with someone and you may
find they don't answer. Not out of rudeness, but simply because they are
wearing the ubiquitous iPod earphone that is seemingly everywhere. Another
tool, that takes the wearer just that more distant from his surroundings.
Walk to the beach and see the never ending gaggle of tourists disembarking
from their tour bus or their rented car, lining themselves along the
sidewalk to take the all important photograph of the Pacific, or better
still a picture with themselves standing in front of the ocean. Then they
just as quickly embark back on their respective mode of transportation to
leave. They lasted no more than 5 minutes. Did any of them notice how each
wave crashed in its own unique way on the beach? Did they see the majesty of
each bird flying above? Did they revel in the surfurs joy? Did they glimpse
at the rainbow of colors of the many kites and the artistry of their owners?
I know these people. I am quite familiar with them all, as I was once one of
them myself. I was the one that knew which lane of the individual street at
any given time to avoid the most traffic and to arrive at my destination a
micro-minute faster. While in college I worked in retail, and could actually
ring 2 people up at the same time on different registers. For goodness sake,
I even know the fastest way to get dressed in the morning!
Why is it we don't actually take the time and smell the roses? There is so
much beauty everywhere. Driving through the Presidio in San Francisco one
day, I was suddenly overcome with the beauty of the centuries old trees
swaying in the wind with the familiar aroma of eucalyptus wafting to my
nose. Yes, I have seen them for years and even enjoyed their scent, but this
is the first time they had my full attention to notice their gracefulness.
God really created a miracle here.
We were meant to learn, grow and enjoy life. Soak in all its great beauty
and wonder. Take in the elegant beauty of a rose in the garden, and watch
the bee dancing around it trying to get its attention. Watch the young child
learning to ride his bike with his father beaming with pride. Observe a
cloud pass overhead forming its ethereal shapes. Sit in a Parisian cafe
people watching for hours without a care in the world. Paint a picture or
write a poem of your surroundings. Here is one that I wrote about my
observations:
The Sights and Sounds of Ocean Beach

The sound of the waves crashing on the shore with its seemingly calm waters,
hence the name Pacific, but in actuality the riptides and undertows are
quite dangerous…yin and yang at work again…
The seagulls chirp while the other birds sing their various melodies above
me.
The occasional muffled human voice wafts through the air.
A lone dog waits and points at something toward the sea. His master arrives
and takes him. He saunters off enthusiastically with his tail wagging. The
memory of his prey seemingly vanishes.
A young couple strolls along the beach arm in arm and reminds me of my
youth.
The old Cliff House sign is a reminder of the Grand Dame that once stood
there.
The trees with their fantastically unusual shapes…are they Japanese?
A little girl uses her plastic shovel to cover her feet with the warm sand
as I used to when I was her age. I wonder if all children do this.
The fog rolls in, seemingly swallowing the landscape, cooling me down, while
my favorite sound of all, the fog horn firmly roars at the ships so they
will not lose their way.
The fog quietly covers the sights, but it can not mask the sounds.
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