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Case of the Month: Selling with Empathy

Want to sell something? Look at it from a buyer point of view! This week, I got an example of a door to door salesman who lacked this skill completely.

Suppose you have to someone the sell aerial photographs you took from his house, how would you do it? What the guy tried was giving me a compliment for my nice garden and the good work done by the garden architect. My first reaction was: "Hey, I want compliments for MY work and besides, the grass field looks awful on that picture."

First lesson of selling with empathy make sure you get a grasp of the thinking process of the customer, in stead of imposing your own thinking. So what I would do is ask questions, such as: "What do you think of this picture of your house, your garden, etc. If we would enlarge it, how would you want us to correct it, etc?"

The guy's presupposition was "I have a unique product, this customer can only buy from me. So I have the power. I can punish the customer by NOT selling." My reaction is: "Yes, but do I need this picture?"

The second lesson of empathy is to understand how the customer can use the product - and eventually help to create a need. For creating a need you could tell stories of other customers, what they got out of it. You could also ask questions such as "Imagine showing your house to others? Image using this picture to see how you could even improve your garden, …" The questions you ask here would be preferentially driven by the information the customer gave you in the first part of the conversation.

Only once you know the need of the customer, you may clarify how your product responds to that. Don't do that exhaustively, that would be overselling. Just make sure you deal with the important concerns this person has and the criteria he put forward during his explanation.

In this case, this sales person was getting nowhere, so I tried to help him a bit and I said: "My wife is not at home, but if you borrow me the picture, I'll show it to her and ask her what she thinks during breakfast - you could com back tomorrow." Unfortunately, the salesperson started from the following belief set: "the customer cannot be trusted" + "I don't let the picture go out of my hand" - so he refused.

Third lesson: let the customer get a "taste" of the product, let him feel it, experience how it would be like to own it. So I would have accepted the offer, asking for an appointment to come back to the customer and hving an occasion to know how his wife thought about it.

So how did the aerial sales end? The guy walked away without selling and without understanding why I didn't cooperate. I was happy, since I had a case to write about! Of course, If YOU are at the purchasing side, and you really would need the product of this person, I would recommend you another strategy, but that's another story…