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Goal Setting
The
SMARTEST Goal Setting Techniques
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For some time now the SMART techniques for goal
setting has been used by authors, trainers, coaches, etc.
to create a foundation for actualizing goals. They work
and have proven themselves over time so that they are
published and reiterated a thousand times over. They truly
are "smart" - specific, measurable, achievable,
realistic and tangible or timely.
As a trainer in employment transition training
skills I have discovered that goal setting is a mandatory topic in
every workshop that I facilitate. The group is always challenged
by me to be very specific with their goals. This is where the
SMART technique proves to be very effective. I have added a new
dimension to this effective process. It is called the SMARTEST
goal setting technique that I use to fire up one's commitment to a
higher level of successful goal setting.
Engaging!
In other words when your values and goals align
they form a passionate attitude that light up the room when you
speak of your goals. This will engage people in your dreams and
attract tangible networking opportunities, ideas, advice etc.
People are drawn to passionate goal setters. In my workshops I
have the participants perform a self-esteem exercise that
re-familiarizes them to their talents and accomplishments. This
exercise builds confidence so when goal setting is discussed they
are more affirming about themselves and their goals. It realigns
them with their values hence engaging them into their dreams and
ultimately enrolling others with their support. Your enthusiasm is
contagious!
Shifting Goals!
There is an important notice that can be placed on
every human being. It would read…"During the course of your life
the most constant thing you will experience is change". Your goals
will shift. I venture to say that if they don't you are not
working your goal, they are not "smart" enough or they lack focus.
Bold statement and I know there are always exceptions to the rule.
I trust when you are so focused on a goal it draws in other
possibilities that can shift your original goal. You might still
hit the bull's eye but it will on a different target. Knowing this
can take the pressure off those who are perfectionist or believe
with an unhealthy vigor that they must stick to a particular goal.
Be flexible! Caution with shifting goals - I am not endorsing
constantly changing your goals every other week or month. I'm
talking about how life circumstances and your focus attracts
opportunities not originally seen at the time of the creation of
the original goal. I do congratulate those that stick with a goal
for years, achieve them and are happy. This is also a possibility.
Team Effort!
Part of my responsibilities as a trainer is to
encourage that the participants enroll a person that will hold
them accountable to their goals - another words an "accountability
coach". Our world is wrought with a lack of accountability. There
are people who can not follow through with agreements set with
others let alone the agreements they set for themselves. Through a
team effort you will be more sensitive to upholding your goals for
you will report your successes and failures to your coach. I
realize that friends or family members are usually chosen as part
of the support team and are not professional coaches. Therefore, I
give them some easy guidelines that will make them more effective
as an amateur coach. Tell your coach not to accept reasons or
excuses for a goal that was not accomplished. Instead they can
assist you in renegotiating the goal that was broken. In other
words recommit to it if there still is value in it. Conversely,
celebrate your successes when goals are achieved. Also, meet with
or call your team or coach on a regular basis with a set
appointment. This adds more structure to your goal and increases
the chances of success.
There is no better life than that which is lived in pure
self-expression. You might as well get the most out of your
self-expression by knowing what constitutes effective goal
setting. Therefore, infuse into your goal setting regimen an
engaging attitude, acceptance of the shifting human condition and
a system that allows for accountability through a team that
supports. You will add structure, vitality and commitment to the
fulfillment of your dreams and be an example for others to follow.
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